INFORMATION

Secondary infertility

Secondary infertility is more common than many people realise, yet it’s often less talked about and can feel isolating to experience.
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The challenge to have another baby

Secondary infertility refers to difficulty conceiving or carrying a pregnancy to term after previously having a child without fertility struggles.

While you may already be navigating the demands of parenthood, you might also find yourself facing unexpected challenges when trying to grow your family again.

Causes can be similar to those seen in primary infertility - such as changes in egg or sperm quality, ovulation issues, or underlying health conditions - but they can also be influenced by age, complications from a previous pregnancy or birth, or changes in overall health.

Navigating complex emotions

It can be particularly complex emotionally. You may feel grateful for the child you already have, while also experiencing sadness, frustration, or a sense of loss about the family you had hoped to build.

These feelings often sit alongside guilt, which can make it harder to talk openly or seek support. Secondary infertility is a valid and recognised experience, and support and guidance are available when you’re ready to explore next steps.

Shared stories

As part of our Birds and the Bees campaign, Meryl shares some of the complex feelings and emotions she experienced while facing a heartbreaking struggle with secondary infertility.